Dedicate a flower or butterfly
Light Up a Life
Much loved Husband, Dad, and Granddad, FOREVER IN OUR THOUGHTS, "We never walk Alone"with you watching down on us all Love you to the Stars and back xxxxxxxxxx
In rememberance of a loved and missed father and father-in-law. Never forgotten just like your Firget-me-nots. xx
From Pete and Sue
Remembering, with all my love, a wonderful wife of 60+ years, you cared so much for me and our three children throughout yopur life. WE will never forget you. All our love.
From Ernest Hoole
Always in our thoughts dear Trudy
From Jo Marchant
Thank you for your friendship over the years.
From Sandra and Clive
Dear Nan, I'm so glad I got to see you a few weeks ago, you looked well and made me laugh. You'll always be loved and I will never forget you. Lots of Love Louise xxx
From Louise Watkins (Grand daughter)
Our deepest sympathy to Diana & the Simpson family and in remembrance of Eugenie Simpson. John 14:1-4 Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God for he has prepared a place for Eugenie.
From Andre & Marlene Mars
A wonderful Wife, Mum and Nan, always up for a laugh and had a smile that would light up the sky - Reunited with her darling Norman RIP lovely lady xxx
From Lea & Griff
Rest in peace now, brother, Ronald and uncle, now you can be with your mum and dad again lots of love xxx From your big sister and niece
From Susan and Sally Quigley
To a Wonderful Dad and Father-in-law who is always in our thoughts and who we miss every single day but especially on this our first Fathers Day without you.
From Debbie & John
To our wonderful Grandpa, thinking of you today walking around Frdncham Ponds thinking tou'd know what kind of flower that was.. We miss you always A wonderful thank you to Phyllis Tuckwell for all...
From Louise and your Grand Holden
I miss you so much Dad, love you always xxx
From Linda
Happy Fathers Day, Dad. I love you so much. Thinking of you every day. I hope you're having fun with Nan, Grandad and Uncle's Eric and Nigel.
From Stacey Court
To my friend, Senior Pat, from Junior Pat. I shall miss you, but also remember the great days out, the afternoon teas and all the lovely cakes, your superb photography, and your pragmatic kindness and...
From Pat Taylor
In celebration of Gitte's daughter Sophia's 18th birthday we have made this donation for her. We want to celebrate Sophia's life and the beautiful woman that she has grown up to be. Gitte would ...
From Jules & Erik Castenskiold
Love and miss you always
From Gary, Jo, Ella & Lily
Linda is with us every day. She enters conversations and memories all the time. We have chosen a butterfly so she can fly
From Heathrow Friends
Always smiling in all the time I knew you when we worked together many moons ago at the AEB & more recently when we were reunited through the other Susan. You must have been in so much pain yet you ne...
From Tarina
A good man taken from us too soon. This dedication fulfills my Pledge to Ashlin in memory of her "Uncle Steve" as she completes her Mud Run.
From Little Red

From Lizzie & Mike Davies
To my lovely Mum, remembering you with love, Jill xxx
From Jill
In memory of my lovely friend Val. I miss having you in my life xx
From Christine Martin
My amazing Mummy I miss you so very much, you are my world and my idol Words cannot describe the emptiness I feel for you I can't function without you, but it brings me happiness that you are now a...
From Antonia
Pauline, you have been the best second Mummy I could have ever asked for. I hope you have fun with Barnie and Scooby. We will always miss you and you may be gone but you will always be with us. Love y...
From Riya, your little butterfly
Thankyou for being my adoptive mom for all those years I was in the UK. You were a beautiful person with a big heart. Will be missed
From Roslyn Hornsby
Mi linda amiga, Te extrañare mucho, tu generosidad, tus detalles, tu fe sin limites, tu amistad incondicional, siempre admirare la tenacidad con la q llevaste tu vida, te quiero amiga y gracias por...
From Andrea Cantillo
Always smiling, we will miss you
From Beverly
Alba was an inspiration, her faith in Jesus was amazing, she never stopped smiling and looking on the bright side. She was generous, loving and fun. We look forward to dancing with her in Heaven!
From Jackie, Elvin, Daisy, Luke and Leilani
Rest In Peace Alice
From Chris Alistair Kiefer and Alrik XXX
To a real lady, with all my love. I will miss you so much, sleep tight.
From Carole

From Hayley & Graham Holland

From Pearl and Des Carrington
To dear Audrey-Sadly missed
From Peter & Cynthia Stickels
Dad remembering you at Christmas x
From his son stuart clinch & daughter in law tricia
You are always in our thoughts and hearts. We love you and miss you Dad. xxx
From Julie, Neil and Claire xxx
In Memory of my dear Dad x
From Judy
In Memory of my dear Mum x
From Judy
A wonderful friend from Canada who was so full of life and had time for everyone.
From Graham & Rosemary
May your smile and positive attitude be passed on to everyone who knew you, you are an inspiration!! Rest now beautiful xx
From Sharon, Jess & Sam xxx
In loving memory of a brother sadly missed. We had great times together.
From Jim & Barbara Hooper
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the Norris and Elliott Families. Thank you for raising such a wonderful family.
From Fred and Kathy Roggero
Dearest Janet, The kindest, most generous, selfless person someone could wish to know. It's been a privilege to know you and an honour to call you my sister. Missing you. Lots of love, Jackie xxxx
From Jackie Garford
Taken from us far too early and missed dearly every day but always held close to our hearts. Miss you xx
From Adrian & Sarah Orchard
To our wonderful Dad, Father- in-law and Grandad , we can't believe it's a year since you passed away , we miss you so much but your always be just a breath away xxx
From John , Debbie and Family
Supporting Brionys 10k run to help find a cure. Steve will be missed by all who met him. He was taken far to soon.
From Little Red
Always in our thoughts. xxxx
From Pat, Kate, Dave, Alex and George
You are always in our thoughts. We miss you everyday dad/Grandad xxxxx
From Sarah, Ian & Lottie
Always with us xx with love xx
From Helen, Gillian, Vincent and Susan xx
You are always in our hearts and minds.
From Mum, Dad. Jo, Claire and Elliot
To mum I miss you so much everyday lots of love Sarah xxxx
Two wonderful men sorely missed
From Derek Staveley and extended family
Remembering our lovely Daughter Who died of breast cancer in 2002.
From From her Mother & Father, Dor
In memory of a wonderful, loving and caring wife, Mum and Grandma. Always in our thoughts, loving you forever. From David, Philip, Maria & Finley xxx
From David, Philip, Maria and Finley
To a very special niece who will forever be in our thoughts
A truly kind hearted fellow, whose smile would light up any room. Quiet and unassuming, deeply caring. One of life's true gentlemen.
From All at Citizens Advice Hart
A life too short but full of love.
From Jo and Robert Curtin
Time passes but the memories will never fade. 
From Ray and Cynthia
A wonderful mum , grandmother and great grandmother. Remembered with love and greatly missed.
From Phyl,Don,Sue and families
Wife of Tony and mum of Keith and Julie. We miss you more than words can ever say, without you here with us our lives are empty and will never be the same again. We feel blessed to have had someone in...
From Tony, Keith & Julie
I miss my dear friend more then words can say. Every time I see flowers and gardens she is closer to me, so this dedication is perfectly fitting for a beautiful lady xxx
From Maysie and Cookie
To my other half, Rob, love you for ever and miss you every day.
From Diana Delahoy
A loving Mum, Nan and Grandma who is greatly missed. Always in our hearts. Love and hugs.
From Gillian, Helen, Susan, Vincent, all her grandchildren and great grandchildren xxx.
In memory of a very much loved son, brother, uncle and friend, forever in our thoughts. We all miss you terribly and will love you forever.
From Mum & Dad, Alex & Eremi, Luisa & Rob, Elodie & Jack
Such a brave lady ,who passed away peacefully with great dignity.Jean was surrounded by the love of all her family. May she rest in peace.I will always remember her for her gentleness and kindness an...
From Sue Cordery
In continuing memory of my/our Moira, the lady whose smile gave so much pleasure to so many. I thank her every day for simply being her.
From George
Darling Alice, I cannot believe that you have been gone for over two years. I feel you near me so often and you look down on me from your lovely picture over the fireplace. Rest in peace my darlin...
From Ernest Edward Hoole (Husband)
In memory of my lovely sister who is always in my thoughts and missed forever. With love, Jane xxx
From Jane
There isn't a day since you were suddenly taken away from us that we don't miss you. Our funny & fond memories while we were growing up will always be in our hearts. You are now safe & pain free bu...
From The Ferguson Family
Dear Dad Over 3 years since you passed away- we think of you everyday. Never forgotten ~ always in our hearts & Thoughts. God Bless & Love you Dad xxxxxx Mum misses you everyday xxxx
From Janet Tom & Family ( McGarry)
Miss you Mum, love you lots
From Amanda
In loving memory of a beautiful wife, mother, aunt, grand-mother, daughter, sister and best friend. I lost my soul mate the day Jackie slipped way, but always feel her near in the garden - somewhere s...
From LIam, Will & Zoe, Jennie, James, Emilie, Max & Henry Rodwell, Jessica, George & Ava Porter
Mommy I miss you everyday,you are always in my thoughts. I love you xxx
From Michelle Andree Gill
To our lovely mum who sadly left us too early in 2012 due to an aggressive brain tumour. We miss you so very much. Your hugs, your zest for life, your lists and your unconditional love. You are in o...
From Jackie, George and John
Mum - Always in my heart. Never forgotten. X
From Karen Tasker
In memory of our loving father . You were there for us . A kind gentle man .life sacrifices you made for us are never forgotten . Taken from us far too soon . your pain and suffering was taken away th...
From Jacqueline . Jennifer . and Keith
Always in our thoughts and we still miss you everyday xxx
From Beryl, Gill, Matt, Ashleigh, Duncan &Amelia
Gone but always in our hearts and minds, dad you are truly missed but remembered as the most special dad anyone could have wished for xxxx
From His loving family
Remembering all the happy times we spent together. Ray was a truly remarkable husband and Dad who was always there for us in good times and the not so good. Not a person in the world could possibly ...
From Pat, Paul, Robert, Anne and families
Always an inspiration to me. Never forgotten.
From Karen Tasker
Miss you more and more, love you forever. Xxxx
From Mum and Dad
Missing you so much, remembering a great Dad, Grandpa and Great Grandpa. Gone but not forgotten.
From Philippa Brian Peter Emily Ivy Charli & Mikey
Precious Little One, We had you in our lives such a very short time, but we’ll hold you in our hearts forever.  It seemed like only a fleeting moment, but it was long enough to see you, touch you, ...
From Philippa Brian Peter Emily Ivy Charli & Mikey
My beloved Ethel, Fiancé, mother, grand mother and great grand mother, missed and loved by all
From Terry and all the Family
Miss you mum, love you so much. Xxx
From Yvonne and Rod
My best friend. Love you sis, miss you every day.
From Shell & Ian x
Miss you every day Mum xxx
From Bev & Ken
Gone but never forgotten, loving wife, mother, mother-in-law, Nanny and Great Nanny, forever in our hearts
From Brian Philippa Peter Charli Emily & Ivy
Still missed by everyone
From all the family
In memory of our Mum and Nan . Thinking of you always. Lots of love xxxx
From Kim, Craig and families
The best Mum and Dad I could have asked for, so many happy memories, I miss you both so much
From Tina
You may no longer be with us but you'll live on in our hearts and our memories. Miss you Dad xxx
From Franca & Wendy
Five years gone but always in our thoughts and hearts xxx
From All the family
Always thinking of you and missing your cheeky smile
From Mum, Dad (Jane & Dave), brother Alec, & Annett and everyone at Elliott House
Forever in our hearts With all our love
From Eleanor & Brian Wallace
Darling, I want to write a few words to let you know how much i'm missing you, but I tell you everyday and you know you sit firmly on my shoulder and push me through this life stolen from us. We will ...
From Wendy, his wife
Mum I miss and think of you every day Lots of Love and Hugs Helena xxx
From Helena
We all think of you every single day and miss you terribly. However, your joyful spirit continues to surround us all, particularly this first Spring without you. All our love forever xxx
From Eric, Sharon, Yvonne, Catherine and all the family xxx
If we could have that time again, I'd tell you that you are my best friend. And if you were here now, I'd share the joy that my two daughters bring. Without you, I wouldn't be me.
From Julia
To our beloved Mum and Nanny, We love and miss you so much. From Vicky, Martin, Adam & Sam xxx
From Vicky, Martin, Adam and Sam xxx
My younger brother, Barry, taken from us Friday 31/03/2017. Beloved husband to Veronica and father to Ian and Lee. You could not find a more gentle, loving person in the whole world. Rest in peace Bar...
From His brother Terry
It's been six years now but we still think of you each day. Life is not the same without you in our lives.
From Peter and Giselle Mercer
Still loved and missed, a meadow full of flowers is perfect.
From Clive , Lara , Ian, and the Grandchildren
To my lovely sister who will live forever in my heart. Miss you. With love always. Xxx
From Gill
Such a loving mum, nanny, sister, aunty, daughter and friend. Your loving care, fun and laughter will be in our hearts forever xxxxxxx
From Simon, Rhian, Oscar and all your loving family and friends
Sending love to our friend James Sharpin who recently lost his mum x
From Nicki & Mark
Forever in our Thoughts and Hearts!! Miss and love you every day! Life seems very different without you but know you will be looking down on us and be with us every minute of every day! Love you to ...
From Kim, Alice and Samantha
Your were one in a million Mum and you are greatly missed. There's not a day goes by that you are not in our thoughts. We all miss you so much. Forever in our hearts ❤. All our love John, Tina, Ian,...
From John, Tina, Ian, Elliot and Giles
In memory of Julian Crow, a beloved son, brother and friend to all. Always in our thoughts and hearts. Your beautiful light will always shine. Miss you so much Xxxx
From Mum, Dad, Jonathan and AJ
She was a nice woman and she always cared for me and she made me laugh and she was a great nan to me and she was the best ever and no one could replace her because she was truly wonderful
From Tasha
In loving memory of a dear Mum. A born fighter.A lovely devoted mum and nan. Cruelly taken from us. After a short but brave battle with pancreatic cancer. Miss you every day. Always in our hea...
From Sarah Putt
Forever in our hearts,Love you and miss you so much xxx
From Judy,Simon,Amber,Sarah,Sam,Harriet,Suzanne,Sophia,Hayden and Daniel
Thank you to The Phyllis Tuckwell Hospice & all the dedicated staff who supported us & cared for Norman almost 14 years ago now. He is forever in our thoughts & dedicating this poppy in his memory is ...
From Margaret & family
Coming up to 5 years since you were taken away from us to rest . Miss you so much . Love you always . From Wife Bessie , Julie, Susan , David , Robert and all your Grandchildren xxx
From All his family
Remembering a very Dear Husband to Sue. Dad to Bethany,Emma,Kirsten,Holly & Thomas. Super Granddad to Ryan, Jordan, Kyle, Rhys, Eloise, Grace, Kiera, Zach, Evan, Noah Hayden & Franklin. Went to join B...
From His Family
With fond memories xxx
From Jacqui & Nigel
For our cousin & nephew, a lovely guy, RIP
From Melanie & Janet Portsmore
Forever in our thoughts
From Ali Greene
Miss you and love you mum
From Jacqui Brundish
Still miss you everyday, you're in my heart every step through my training and in every patient I treat
From Claudia

From Melanie
Remembering Pat Atkinson, a dedicated Hampshire cricket fan, you will be missed x x
From Rod and Mandy Bransgrove
Always in our thoughts xx
From Susan, Colin, Martin, Neil, Wendy Beth, Sam
With fond memories of Peter Young, his good humour and caring personality, who spent his final days in the care of your staff.
From Rosemary & Stewart Morgan
Happy memories of times spent together xx
From Ron & Jean
In loving memory of Fiona! Big hugs xx
From Rick & Michelle
We miss you so very much. Keep shining down on us, love you lots and always will xxxxxxx
From Redmond and Becky
Rest in peace Sheila. XX
From Rod & Iris Bannister
Mum, miss you more than words can ever say. Thank you for being you, the best mum in the world 💗 My best friend 👩‍❤️‍👩 love, hugs & kisses, love you always Karen xxxx
From Karen Wood
Look at me, Dad. I'm using my new name! I felt you were with me every step of the way going down that aisle. I hope you liked the seat I reserved for you, it had your favourite cushion. Anyway, Happy ...
From Stacey Court-Martin
Brian, you were taken too soon. You will be greatly missed by your family and many friends.
From Carol,Ian,Graham & Andrew xxxx
In memory of Katie; as feisty a project manager that I ever had the pleasure to work with.
From Steve Lacey
In loving memory of a wonderful lady, Bonnie Ivil. Always happy with such a beautiful smile, sadly missed by all your friends.
From Friends at Squire's Garden Centres
Will be remembered by us.
From Neil, Tina & Kirsteen
To a very special uncle, with love from Stephanie
From Stephanie
I didn’t know David very well but know he loved butterflies so this picture is appropriate. He will be sadly missed by his family and friends.
From Fran
What an amazing man, the best dad & grandad, we've learnt lots and are better for having had you in our lives xxx
From Chris, Nic, Jacob & Rohan
To my darling Dad. Your cheeky sense of humour and that twinkle in your eye will be missed. You were brave for so many years. Rest now. We love you more than you know. May the big band keep swing...
From Loving daughter Mandy (Banjo), Andrew and grandsons Shaun and Ethan
In loving memory of Ann Selby
Thanks for your help

From Chris & Lynn
Mum we miss you and love you loads Happy birthday for tomorrow X
From Noella, Kyle,Luke and Amber
You were not just my aunt ,you were the very heart of our family . No one can replace you . forever will you be in my heart . xxxx
From Mandy, Greg , Holly and Joe
Everybody changes the world just a little when they are here, you have gone but will be remembered by those that loved you and the memories you created for them, I have chosen a butterfly for you beca...
From Lorna and family
To my dear friend "miss positive" one of the worlds special people ,always there if you needed her totally selfless and an absolute credit to jane and john. What I. Wouldn't give for ff for one last r...
From Sarah Davies
For my Grandad xxx
From Laura
Charlotte, to an amazing friend we will miss you. Lots of love Helen, James and Zac Hanson
From Helen, James and Zac Hanson
Heidi, you have left a part of you in everyone who was lucky enough to meet you! Your a devoted wife, loving mother, true friend and talented equestrian. You truly are the most loving, honest, hard wo...
From Jade, a friend from the horsey world
In loving memory of Heidi. You will be much missed xxx
From Jess & Ash
Heidi, we miss you so much, you strength and courage and positivity stayed with you throughout your whole ordeal, you are a true inspiration to many. We have lost a beautiful soul, but may your spiri...
From Tracey, Nigel, Ellie and Jodie
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Phyllis Tuckwell's Memory Meadow is dedicated to those loved ones who are no longer with us, but are never forgotten. Each flower and butterfly represents the life of someone who is loved and missed.

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Phyllis Tuckwell Hospice Care provides services to patients, families and carers affected by a terminal illness in West Surrey and North East Hampshire, supporting 250 people each day.

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